Happy Birthday, Boy

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Today would have been the celebration of Jeff's 39th birthday.

Actually, today will be the celebration of his big day.

It's quite early in the morning and memories are flooding back to me, but that seems to be every day anyway. It's just more pronounced today.

Thirty-nine years isn't a lot of time. Not even close to what would have been acceptable.

Yet the gift of today is to remember that time is short, and to appreciate what is there in front of you. Sounds cliche, but a necessary messsage for sure.

That was part of Jeff's message to us all in the time he was here, busting our chops.

Every day was a bit of a party. There was plenty of time to make us smile. Every meal was a feast... we laughed a ton with him...remember that dear friends.

So, I'll raise a glass...

Listen to Americanland by Bruce...

Maybe cry a little...

And smile a lot...

Happy Birthday, brother!

Comments

Andrea Renee said…
Happy Birthday, Jeff! Lots of love and ((((hugs)))) to your family and friends...
22 June, 2009
Carrie Lynn Fazzolari said…
Back at you. The love is certainly present today.

What were you doing up at 3:18am... had to be the first to wish him a happy birthday, didn't you?

I've seen a hawk three different times today. At one point it was heading straight for my windshield and then flew gracefully away...
22 June, 2009
Cliff Fazzolari said…
Yeah well first song I heard today was "You're Missing" on the E-Street Channel - went in to get the paper - came out and "American Land" was on.

Spoooooky shit.
22 June, 2009
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