A New 5-Year Deal
When we were first married I joked with my wife that we should renew our marriage in five-year increments. We'd go years 1 to 5 under the original contract and then we'd either re-up or back out. (Actually it is a great idea, but Lord knows we can't mess with the idea of marriage being anything other than what it is - a life sentence). Yet the first contract negotiations on the next leg of the marriage passed without even a 2nd thought - we skipped into years six through ten with no more than a few playful digs about how much fun we were having. At year 10 - we both signed up for another five-year stint. There was never a question. We are now two years into our third such contract and I'm willing to take it a step further - I want an early extension. I don't need any more money. God knows that additional children are not part of any new deal. I don't need a different house, or a new car, or her to agree to anything else at all. I'm sick of the 5-year deals. ...