Syd Strong!

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I know every emotion that Syd's parents are going through. I am aware of all of the fears associated with entrusting people who were strangers to take care of my child.

You see, Syd is a young girl who is in a battle for her health. She's being treated at the Women & Children's Hospital of Buffalo. Her family is enduring the sort of heartbreak that must be a main staple of what they serve in purgatory.

To Leslie and Barb...and fifty others...stay strong.

Faith, love, hope and strong are the words that the family needs right now, so I'm writing this in an effort to beg them to stay the course.

There are so many ups and downs when battling an illness.

It's the only way through.

I remember feeling as if the outside world just didn't matter and staring in wonderment at folks who were complaining about things that had little importance in the grand scheme of things.

I recall feeling the love of the nurses who stood up and did way more than what was expected, and the doctors who smiled with us and agonized through each separate stage.

So Syd...there are people who know how tough this stage of your life is.

There are those of us who are with you, begging you to be...

Strong.

On the days when you really are fed up with it, hang tough.

In the moments when you feel as strong as you can possibly feel, hold on...

To that feeling.

It isn't easy and I'm so sorry that you are going through even a minute of it, but know that there are a lot of us right there with you.

Hope.

Faith.

Love.

And most of all

Strength.

Syd Strong Strength.

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